Ten rules that make the difference between a "Good Player" and a "Bad Player" 1. Thou Shalt Never Kiss & Tell This is how you get a player's reputation to begin with. Besides, women hate finding out just how naughty they were last night through the grapevine. Keep your mouth shut; it will keep them coming back for more naughty games without having to worry about tarnishing their clean-cut reputations. 2. Thou Shalt Not Make Empty Promises Never lie or make empty promises to a woman just to satisfy your own short-term needs. There is nothing more valuable than a man's word. Once you break it, you are no longer honorable -- and word gets around fast. 3. Thou Shalt Always Show Your Cards You will be surprised at how many women love to play without any strings attached. There is no reason to lie. Let them know where you stand at all times. 4. Thou Shalt Be Charming You need to be charming with everyone including ugly women, older women and even men. Charm is simply the art of letting someone know that you feel good about them, without asking for anything in return. 5. Thou Shalt Be Helpful And Friendly A friendly demeanor will minimize stress and make it easier for you to be charming. Besides, what better way to meet women than through a smile? Some people feel that helping or doing favors for others isn't worth the effort unless there is some sort of beneficial result. The problem with this way of thinking is that sometimes you might underestimate the person in need. 6. Thou Shalt Not Cut Your Wingman's Grass Some men have difficulty approaching women, so they cowardly wait behind enemy lines and let their wingmen do all the hard work before making a move. This is known as cutting your wingman's grass or nipping his wings. Never join a mission unless you're signaled for help or backup. 7. Thou Shalt Never Mock A Fault Men who laugh at the faults or misfortunes of others lose respect of the people around them. Player's proverb: "It takes a lot more courage to laugh at yourself than at others." 8. Thou Shalt Leave Them Wanting More Be generous and share as much of your time as you can spare, but always leave them at the most exciting part of the night. Before things begin to get boring, leave them wanting more. 9. Thou Shalt Worship All Women Besides making a woman feel happy, sexy and respected, you will also make her want to remain in your presence -- especially if you can make her feel this way every day. A good player will treat all women -- beautiful, ugly, short, tall, fat, skinny, young, and old -- in the same manner. 10. Thou Shalt Be Passionate About Everything The important point here is that it has to be genuine. Player's proverb: "Make love as though it is the last time every time -- even with one-night stands -- good first impressions lead to better future sessions."