sex and my brother

I'll be out of town visiting family and attending my brother's wedding. Posts will be sparce at best (as if they aren't now). I don't know how I feel about my brother getting married. I know how I feel about the fact that I'm not getting paid for that time away. I'm pissed. I've digressed... Anyway, I don't know if I like that fact that my brother has chosen to wait until he's married. Granted, this isn't a new thing, people have been doing it for years. But it makes me wonder, how happy is he going to be? He's going to marry this woman. This whole thing is going to be a constant kick in the ass from reality. I'm not saying this because I think he's unusally niave. I'm saying it because a bad lover can make for a rocky relationship. Some people just can't be tought. This is going to be his honeymoon. This is going to be his first experience with "the act". I'm debating on talking to him before he gets married and letting him know that it does get MUCH better than the first time. I mean how many of you had the best experience the first time? If you did, chances are wasn't both your first time. For the rest of us, we remember, and it sucked. Sex can be an amazing experience or it can be traumatic. I guess sex and hope and a lot in common. I'll ponder than one later . Once again, I've digressed. I want his sex life to be as amazing for him as mine has been for me. Sex, to me, is very important. It bothers me on a very personal level when I hear someone talk about never having had an orgasm. I still don't know why it does. I don't want his first experiences to tarnish his (or his new wifes) view. How exactly do you bring that up to someone? Is that weird?

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